Pick the correct person

 Hey Dear Blog 

How foolish I am 😂🤭

To realize this it took me many years. 

How do we choose friends? 

How do we choose our soulmates? 

How do we choose our dear ones? 

I hadn't thought at any time. 

This many days i thought maybe we choose our soul mates may be by looks or may be because of our bondings Or closeness

I thought we should choose our friends. Maybe we are getting help from them or those people are standing for us. 

Yes, this may be true for some point of time but what I realized is

# It's all about qualities. 

We will be becoming close to one person not by looks or situations. It's all about qualities. 

Some of the qualities we like and those were fixed in our mind that caused the two persons to connect. 

We will live in a great illusion because of these qualities. Because qualities changes sometime 

# Sometimes we can see the bond dilution in our daily life. This all happens not because of you or not because of the opposite person, it's all because of changing a few qualities of us accordingly. 

This will make us feel something different. 

Because we like one person because of a few qualities, if they change the qualities obviously there will be a slight dilution in the bond. Instead we think opposite person is changed completely but we won't think that qualities were changed and these makes the whole bond to break 😴

So, remember one thing dear 

Person is not changed, only the qualities were changed. Maybe he/she will get those qualities again. 

Situations making him/her to be in that way be patience. 

Dear, do one activity. 

Note down the qualities of your friends/Dears/GF/BF and list the common among them. 

The person with those qualities will suit you best 🤩

Thank you Dear Blog